TWO GONE MISSING –
THE MISSING PERSONS
CASES OF TOM STUMP AND DIANA HARRIS
(a
work in progress)
CHAPTER ONE
When the phone rang at
Later, when she thought back on it,
she could find no reason for this unusual reaction to such a normal event. It had been a lovely summer, filled with
class reunions, family get-togethers and visits from grandchildren, with no
dark clouds on the horizon. As a second
grade teacher, who did volunteer work tutoring slow readers, and an involved
member of her church community, Rose was accustomed to receiving more phone
calls in one day than most women received in a week. So, why this sudden unreasonable feeling of
foreboding that made her draw in a sharp breath, drop a half-peeled potato and
a paring knife onto the counter, and race to the phone.
The voice on the other end of the
line was familiar and beloved. It was
that of her thirteen-year-old step-granddaughter, Bonnie.
“Hello, Bonnie,
what a surprise!” Rose exclaimed.
“I didn’t expect to hear from you today! Your family always calls on weekends! And aren’t all of you busy packing for your
vacation?”
Rose and her husband, Charlie’s,
oldest son, Tom Stump, who was Bonnie’s stepfather,
had phoned just the day before from their home on Sugarloaf Key, Florida, to
say that he had rented a van to take his wife Bernie, Bonnie, and his and
Bernie’s daughter Sally, on a family vacation trip. They were planning to go to
Disney World and then on to
“I’ll call you as soon as we get
back, Mom,” Tom had told Rose. “There is
stuff you and I need to talk about, but it can wait. I want this trip to be a really fun time for
the kids.”
When Bonnie didn’t respond to her
grandmother’s question, Rose’s apprehension grew stronger. “Bonnie,” she said, “is something wrong? Is
somebody sick?”
“It’s – Tom,” Bonnie
stammered. “He – he’s – gone.”
“Tom’s gone?” Rose repeated in
bewilderment. “Where did he go?” All she could imagine was that Tom had left
to gas up the van. But, if so, why did
Bonnie seem so upset?
“We think Tom committed suicide,” Bonnie
blurted.
“You think what?”
Rose gasped incredulously. “What are you
talking about? Is this some kind of a
joke?”
“He walked into the woods, walked out, walked
into the woods, walked out, walked into the woods and stayed,” Bonnie
said.
When Rose began to ask
questions, Bonnie wouldn’t answer them.
“Here,’ she said, “I’ll
let you talk to my Mom.”
There was a break in the
conversation, and Rose could hear muffled voices in the background. Then her daughter-in-law picked up the
receiver.
“Bernie,” Rose said, her
voice shaking, “what’s going on down there?”
“Bonnie’s
telling the truth, Rose,” Bernie told her.
“I’m sure this is an awful shock to you, as it is to all of us. But I’m afraid Tom has gone out back to shoot
himself, to commit suicide.”
Rose felt as if she were
stumbling blindly through a nightmare.
“Tom would never do
that!” she said. “I just talked to him
yesterday. He was all excited about
taking the kids to Disney World. There’s
no way in the world he would suddenly decide to kill himself!”
“Well, he did,” Bernie
said in an emotionless voice. “Last
night, I told Tom I’d fallen in love with somebody else and wanted a
divorce. He got very upset and told me
that, if I didn’t change my mind by eleven this morning, he was going to kill
himself. So at eleven this morning he
went off into the woods, and I’m afraid he’s lying out there dead
somewhere. I called the sheriff’s
department, and they are searching for Tom.
I’ll call you later and tell you what they find.”
She hung up the phone.
Too stunned to know how
to react, Rose glanced at her watch.
Charlie and their son Steve would be home from work any time now, so it
made no sense to go out looking for them.
Charlie was a farmer, and his schedule was dictated by the care of
livestock, so she knew almost exactly when he would be home for dinner. While
waiting for him, Rose phoned their sons,
“It’s just Bernie, being a drama queen,” Chris
said comfortingly. “She and Tom probably
had a spat, and he went off by himself to cool off for a while. For her to make poor little Bonnie call you is unforgivable.
Imagine, getting a twelve-year-old involved in this fiasco!”
Their youngest son,
even more certainty.
“There’s no way Tom would
ever kill himself,”
Taking comfort in her
children’s reassurances, Rose felt slightly less panicky and, not knowing what
else to do, went ahead with supper preparations, moving like a robot through
the long-established routine of putting potatoes on to boil, making a salad,
and laying three places at the kitchen table.
She both longed for and dreaded Charlie’s homecoming, for although she
desperately needed his strength and support, she knew his reaction would be
explosive. Charlie had a short fuse and
would not take kindly to Bernie’s game-playing and flare for the dramatic.
But, thank God, on that
occasion he had taken her back, because that reunion had given them
Sally, the apple of Tom’s eye, as was Bonnie, whom he considered as much his
own as Sally. Bonnie’s
natural father, Mark Ripin, came and went when he
felt like it, but was always made welcome in Tom’s home. That was partly due to the fact that Mark was
Bonnie’s birth father, and partly because Mark and
Bernie had maintained a strong friendship even after their divorce. Bonnie went by the name “Stump,” but Mark was
good to Bonnie, and Tom felt it important that the two maintain a relationship.
In the hour between Bonnie’s phone call and Charlie and Steve’s arrival home
from work, Rose got herself under control.
Charlie’s outrage when she gave him the news was just what she had
expected, but she was able to calm him down a bit by repeating the reassurances
of their other children.
“Tom will be back,” she
said firmly. “You know there’s no way
he’s committed suicide. I bet the phone
rings any minute now, and it will be either Bonnie or Tom himself telling us
he’s home.”
The phone did ring during
dinner and constantly throughout the evening, but the calls were all from Tom’s
brothers. “Is there more news?” “Please, repeat exactly what Bernie said to
you.” “Is there anything we can
do?” Chris’s wife, Fran, went so far as
to phone Bernie herself and called Rose to repeat the conversation. “Bernie says you must have misunderstood her
about having a boyfriend,” Fran said.
“She said she hopes that someday she will meet somebody, but right now
there’s no man in the picture.”
“I know what she told
me,” Rose said. “Bernie said she was in
love with someone, and that’s why Tom went off to kill himself.”
“She was very
convincing,” Fran said doubtfully.
“She always is,” Rose
said. “Well, there’s nothing we can do
tonight except pray for Tom’s safety.
I’m sure he’ll be back by morning.”
“And, let’s pray that,
when he gets back, he’ll follow through on that divorce,” Charlie said,
controlling his anger with effort. “And
that he insists on keeping the house with that new swimming pool he just put in
and that he sues to get custody of the kids.
After all, he takes most of the care of those little girls anyway, and
Bernie is going to be occupied with her new lover.”
“She says she doesn’t
have a new lover,” Rose said. “She told
Fran that I misunderstood her.”
“Huh!” Charlie muttered,
forcing himself to swallow any further comment.
By the following evening
Tom still hadn’t returned. Bernie
reported that the Monroe County Sheriff’s Department had been searching the
area with a dog, but the dog had not found Tom’s body. In fact, instead of going to the woods behind
the house, which was where Bonnie and Bernie both said Tom had disappeared, the search dog had followed Tom’s scent along
the fence to the road. Bernie also said
a search party of friends and neighbors would be combing the woods for Tom on
Saturday.
“Please, let us know if
you hear anything,” Rose begged her.
Bernie promised that she would.
On the outside, Rose
remained calm, for Charlie’s sake and the sake of their other children, but on
the inside she was falling apart. The
phone calls among the immediate family continued. “No news is good news” was becoming a
favorite saying. During the day, Rose
would visit the little country church that the family attended and sit there,
crying, as she was overwhelmed by memories of Tom’s baptism, his first holy
communion, his confirmation and the many masses he had served there, learning
Latin so he could participate. She
pleaded with God to let her son be found safe, to let him come back, to let
nothing terrible have happened to him.
She thought of the story from Luke about how Jesus had been lost in the
temple and how worried Mary and Joseph were until they found him. She prayed that Mary would understand her own
frantic feelings of fear and despair and bring her own boy home safely.
Finally, their youngest
son,
He phoned Rose and said,
“I know Dad can’t get away with the cattle to feed and all the farm chores, but
I think you and I should fly down there. I’ll call Bernie and tell her while
you’re getting your bag packed.”
It wasn’t until Rose and
“From what Bernie’s told
you, it sounds like the sheriff’s department hasn’t done a thing but hunt in
the woods for a suicide victim,”
“No!” Rose gasped. “
“Tom will be back,” Rose
kept repeating, clinging desperately to that one shred of hope that was all
that was keeping her going.
“I hope so,”
“You’re right,” Rose
conceded reluctantly. “I’m glad you
hired an investigator. But Bernie isn’t
going to be happy. She’ll consider it an invasion of privacy.”
The other thing
“What are you doing here?” she demanded
when Rose trailed her son in the door
“I couldn’t stay home,”
Rose said simply.
Bernie told Rose and
However, without being
questioned, eight-year-old Sally volunteered a statement that Bernie was
obviously not prepared for.
“Mommy’s got a boyfriend,
and Bonnie doesn’t like him,” Sally said, with all the innocent sweetness in
her little-girl heart.
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Little did Rose Stump know that, at
that very moment, the
It would be another nine years before
Christine and Rose would find each other via the Internet and discover a
bizarre link between their missing loved ones’ cases. That link was the fact
that, at the time of their disappearances, both Tom Stump and Diana Harris were
involved with the same three individuals.
Tom’s wife, Bernie, and her former husband, Mark Ripin,
(Bonnie’s natural father), were two of those people.
And the third was a very scary person
indeed.
CHAPTER TWO
That night Rose and
Each time she would anxiously ask
herself, “Is it possible that’s Tom? Has he decided to come home?”
It was a long and unsettling night.
Finally the room grew light, and
she and
Bernie greeted them pleasantly and
offered them juice and coffee.
“I’d love
some juice,” Rose told her, wishing she liked coffee, for she certainly could
have used the caffeine boost coffee-drinkers talked about. “I hardly slept at all last night. I kept
waking up, listening for Tom.”
“That’s so
sad,” Bernie said sympathetically.
“Rose, dear, you’ve just got to face the fact that Tom’s gone for
good. He said he was going to commit
suicide, and that’s what he’s done. And
the cruelest part of it is, he did it on Sally’s birthday.”
“Please, tell us everything,” Rose
said, accepting a glass of juice and taking a seat at the table. “Start from
the very beginning and don’t skip a thing.
When Tom walked into the woods, was he carrying a gun?”
“No, he wasn’t carrying a gun when he
left,” Bernie said. “He once told me that he kept a gun in a pail in the woods,
so that must be what he used to shoot himself.”
“He kept a gun in the woods?”
“Tom called me on Sunday and told
me he’d rented a van for your family vacation,” Rose said to Bernie. “Was that true? Did he really do that?”
“Yes,” Bernie said. “We did drive down to
That scenario seemed so outrageous
that Rose found herself unable to swallow her juice.
“So, what happened the next
morning?” she asked shakily.
“Bonnie came home from her friend’s
house at ten-thirty,” Bernie said. “She
found Tom in his downstairs work room, lacing up his boots. They talked for a while, and when it got to
be eleven, and I still hadn’t promised Tom I would stay in the marriage, he
kissed all of us – Bonnie and Sally and me – goodbye. The three of us were crying and ranting and
raving, but Tom was a hundred and eighty pound man, and there wasn’t any way we
could stop him. We walked him to the
edge of the woods, and he went off and left us standing there, screaming for
him to come back. That was the last we
ever saw of him. One reason I’m sure he
had no intention of returning is that later I was rummaging through his closet
and found a pair of shorts he’d worn earlier that morning. His wallet and watch and house keys were in
the pocket. When he walked away, he
didn’t take anything with him, not even his sunglasses. Tom never went anywhere without his
sunglasses.”
“If he went into the woods and
didn’t come out, then he’s got to be in there,”
“Of course,’ Bernie said. “You’ll find his boots downstairs in his work
room. And you won’t have to search by
yourself. There’s a neighbor of ours, a
retired cop, who’ll be glad to go with you.”
She got up from the table and began to rinse out the glasses and coffee
cups.
The morning inched its way by with
maddening slowness.
When Rose went into Sally’s room to
make up the beds, Sally wandered in to play with her dolls and showed her a
little stick doll. She said that Mommy’s
friend had given her the doll to put under her pillow to keep her from having
bad dreams. She gave the doll to Rose to
put under her own pillow that night.
Although, to Rose, the doll looked
like something she once had seen in the window of a shop that sold voodoo
items, she was touched by Sally’s love and concern. She held the child close, burying her face in
the shiny blond hair which always seemed to smell like flowers. This is Tom’s flesh and blood, she told
herself silently. This is the biggest
part of his heart. Never,
never would he deliberately leave Sally!
“What do you think happened to your daddy?”
she asked her granddaughter.
“He’s coming back,” Sally assured
her, seemingly unworried.
Bonnie, on the other hand, appeared
stressed and exhausted, as if she carried the weight of the world on her young
shoulders. Later that morning, when Rose
asked her if Tom’s disappearance had been in the news, Bonnie responded
shortly, “No. Mom knows somebody who can
keep it out of the papers.”
At
After their recorded interview,
Detective Penley asked Rose to step out onto the
porch so she could speak with her privately.
“Something doesn’t seem right
here,” she said in a low voice. “Your
son’s wife seems unusually cheerful, given this serious situation. And she’s
talking about going on vacation. Did she
tell you that?”
“She’s planning to leave this
coming Sunday,” Rose told her. “A friend
of Tom’s is organizing a big search party for tomorrow, and Bernie wants to be
here for that. She’s told
“Don’t you find that a bit odd?”
the detective asked her. “To go off on a
vacation when your husband’s gone missing?“
“It’s her parents’ fiftieth
anniversary,” Rose explained in defense of her daughter-in-law. “This is something that Bernie’s family has
been planning for months. It means a lot
to her to be there, and maybe she needs their company for emotional support.”
They weren’t able to talk any
further, because Bernie came out of the house with a message for the detective
and then followed her out to her car. In
Detective Penley’s report she included the
statement: "Complainant’s demeanor
was very upbeat, and she spoke of getting on with her life.” She also stated, “Complainant Bernadette
Stump followed me out to the car and seemed extremely nervous about my
conversation with victim’s mother.”
Once Detective Penley
had driven off, Bernie questioned Rose and the girls about what they had said
in their statements.
Bonnie responded with basically the same story
that Bernie had told Rose earlier, but with more details. She said that, after returning from her
over-night at her friend’s house, she had talked to her dad for about an
hour. "He told me he loved me and
was going to miss me very much,” she said.
“He told me to take care of my sister and my mom -- feed the dogs --
feed the rabbits – and clean my room. He
said he wouldn’t see me again. I thought
he was moving away, and I asked, ‘Will you call me and write to me?’ and he
said no, but I’d see him in my dreams. I
asked him if he was going to kill himself, and he said no. Then he and I went upstairs to see Sally, and
he told her he was going for a walk.
Sally and I both ran downstairs to say goodbye, and both of us were
crying. Then we went back upstairs and
cuddled with Mom for a while, and when we came down again he was gone. The detective asked me if I’d ever thought
Dad might kill himself. I told her, ‘Never! Man, he’s not that kind of a person!’ She asked me where I thought he’d gone. I told her I thought he’d taken off
hitchhiking to visit Grandma Stump in
In this statement Bonnie made no
mention of having seen Tom walk in and out of the woods three times, as she had
previously described to Rose, or of her mother’s trying to prevent tom from
leaving. And she apparently no longer
agreed with her mother’s theory that Tom had committed suicide.
Sally’s version of the story was
totally different. She said she had told
the detective that she had been sick to her stomach in the night and, when she
woke up the next morning, her father had gotten her juice and given her a
bath. She said they had played for a
while on the computer, and then she had gone back to bed. She said Tom had assured her that he was
going to do everything he could to keep them together and had then driven off
in a car. She made no mention of racing
frantically downstairs and standing, weeping, with her mother and sister, while
Tom walked into the woods.
Bernie did not seem happy with the
conflicting stories and announced that she was taking the girls to visit a
counselor who was a personal friend of hers.
While the three were gone,
“Tomorrow there will be a whole
army of us combing the woods,”
When Bernie returned with the
children, she came storming up the stairs in a rage, with her daughters
cowering in her wake. Obviously
something disturbing had happened since they’d left.
“What did you think you were doing
pumping my children about their father?” Bernie demanded of Rose.
“I didn’t pump them,” Rose
protested. “I may have asked them a few
questions – “ She
paused as she tried to remember what exactly those questions had been. “I did ask Sally where she thought her father
had gone, and I asked Bonnie if the fact that Tom was missing had been in the
news. But I didn’t ask them anything
beyond that – certainly nothing personal about your relationship with Tom or
anything of that sort.”
“You had no right to ask them
anything at all!” Bernie shouted at her.
“And the girls had no right to talk to you! They knew I’d forbidden them to do that! They disobeyed me!”
Rose turned to look at her
granddaughters, and they averted their eyes.
Their faces were pale, and Bonnie looked like she might have been
crying. What could the counselor have said
that had produced this reaction? Or had
the children really spent all this time with a counselor? Was it possible that Bernie’s primary reason
for taking them out of the house was to get them alone so she could ask them
what information they had given Rose? If
so, she obviously hadn’t been pleased with their answers.
By this time, Rose’s nerves were so
frayed by the traumatic events of the past week that she started to cry.
“I’m sorry,” she told her
granddaughters. “Please, forgive
me. The last thing I meant to do was get
you in trouble.”
Choking back sobs, she started to
go downstairs to join
“You’re not walking away from
this!” Bernie told her. “What you’ve done
here today is unforgivable! You are
never to talk to the girls about Tom, and I mean never!”
Bernie then left the house, stating
that she, too, was going to visit a counselor in
“Bartenders tend to hear everything
about everybody,”
Rose and Sally watched television
until Sally’s bedtime. The child seemed
so upset by her mother’s reaction to her last conversation with her grandmother
that she seemed reluctant to talk about anything, including such innocuous
subjects as school and neighborhood friends and the fun she had had with her
cousins when she and Bonnie had visited Rose and Charlie earlier that summer.
Eventually Bernie returned from
what Rose had to think was the longest counseling session on record. But,
although she seemed calmer and more controlled, Bernie’s anger still simmered
beneath the surface, and the tension in the room was too thick for Rose to be
comfortable sitting there watching television.
Probably she just needs a good
night’s rest, Rose told herself. She
must be as worn out as I am. She’ll be
back to her old self tomorrow. She and
Bernie had no past history of conflict.
They had not had much opportunity to build a close relationship, since
they lived in different areas of the country, but Bernie had one of the most
magnetic personalities that Rose had ever encountered, and on those occasions
when they had been together with Tom and the children, she had been nothing
short of delightful. Which
was why the scene she’d thrown earlier had come as such a shock to Rose. It seemed totally out of character. Either that, or it
was a side of Bernie’s personality that she had never known existed.
She told Bernie goodnight and went
to bed, but she couldn’t fall asleep.
She kept asking herself what terrible thing she had done to alienate her
daughter-in-law so badly. In retrospect,
she did feel slightly guilty about asking Sally her opinion about what happened
to Tom. Sally was only eight, so the
question might not have been appropriate, but while holding the child in her
arms, it had just slipped out. And Sally
had not appeared to be upset in the slightest.
“He’s coming back,” she had answered with confidence. She had been asked that same question by
Detective Penley and very probably by the counselor
and apparently had not been adversely affected by it.
And Rose’s question to Bonnie had
required nothing more that a factual answer – had Tom’s disappearance been in
the news? That was a reasonable thing to
ask a 13-year-old. It was Bonnie’s response to that question that was
disturbing: “Mom knows somebody who can
keep it out of the paper.” Why would
Bernie want it kept out of the paper, especially since Tom’s friends were
organizing a search party? The more
people who joined in that search, the more chance there would be of its
succeeding. And what if there was
somebody out there who had personal knowledge that Tom had left town of his own
volition? That person might not realize
that Tom’s loved ones were suffering under the misconception that he was
dead. An article in the paper or a
missing person’s report on radio or television might be all it would take to bring
that person forward with information that would give them all peace of mind.
When
“I didn’t spend the whole evening
in bars, Mom,”
“Then he really was planning to go
on vacation!” Rose exclaimed.
“It sure looks that way,”
“Of course, I have a picture,” Rose
said. “And I know Tom’s Social Security
number. But how in the world am I going
to get the number of his bank account?
Bernie’s so furious with me now that she’ll hardly even talk to me. There’s no way she’s going to give me that
sort of information.”
“Well, you’re going to have to find
some way to get it,”
That night, Rose slept with Sally’s
stick doll under her pillow. She did so
both because her dear grandchild had given it to her and because, tonight in
particular, she needed every bit of help she could get to keep the nightmares
at bay.
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As
Rose sought sleep following a day of emotional chaos, Diana Harris’s daughter,
Christine, did so also, but like Rose, she too had trouble quieting her mind.
Having learned that her mother's case was being reactivated, she found herself
reliving scenes from the past that seemed as fresh that night as they had been
back in 1981, when Diana had brought her children to Big Pine Key.
Although
Diana appeared much younger than her 27 years, she had led a difficult
life. After an abusive marriage that
ended in divorce, she had witnessed her brother shoot himself in the mouth. She had attempted to self-medicate by smoking
marijuana, but that had done little to erase the memory of her brother’s
suicide. Finally, in a desperate attempt
to shake herself free from the gristly vision, she had moved to the
Christine’s
memories of that summer in
But,
as much as she doted on her children, Diana was lonely for adult companionship
and soon found another boyfriend. Gary Argenzio was not a good choice. An ex-convict, he was the caretaker of a
“party house,” owned by attorney Mitchell Denker, who
had struck up a friendship with Argenzio in the late
‘70s.
The
party house, which was Denker’s second residence, was
enclosed by a wall and protected by guard dogs, and some of the people who
partied there were police officers. In
that atmosphere, Diana was introduced to drugs far more insidious than pot. She was also introduced to Argenzio’s and Denker’s friend,
Mark Ripin, who was married to a charming young woman
named “Bernie.” When the two women met,Diana proudly showed Bernie
photos of her children. Bernie, who was
pregnant with her own first child, seemed sympathetic to Diana’s maternal
feelings.
In
June of 1981, Christine and her brother flew back to
In
mid-July, she talked with her mother by phone to confirm her plan to attend
that wedding.
But
she did not do so.
In
late July, Diana placed a phone call to a friend in
Nobody
ever saw or heard from her again, and none of her friends from the party house
reported her missing.